Forgiveness is a choice that can be made by anyone at any time. Unfortunately many choose not to make this choice and live life in torment. Unforgiveness is like a prison, because it locks you in, hinders your mobility and forces you to look at the same scene over and over again.
When we forgive, we are not saying what happen was right, or that it didn't hurt, or we were not disappointed. What you are saying when you forgive is that, I will not allow someone elses issue prevent me from moving on. That pain you feel is an indicator that you have feelings and you trust people, which are all necessary elements of living a joyful life, Never allow anyone to steal that from you through un-forgiveness. To help yourself in this process, ask yourself the following questions: 1. Has not forgiving the person made me feel better? 2. Has not forgiving the person made the action any less hurtful? 3. How has not forgiving affected my other relationships? After this week, don't allow yourself to be placed in a box, imprisoned because of someone else's misjudgment, ill-will or hurtful ways. Free yourself and forgive! Remember, Think Better, Live Better
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